A letter to my son ,
I want you to read this when you are hitting your teens and struggling to make life decisions.
Dhruv this is mom writing to you , I am 24 years old and you are now a 5 months old naughty little minion.You have your own life now and your pattern of lifestyle to follow with all the stress that is eating your head. May be you also hate yourself now for some mistakes and decisions you have/had made. I have no clue on what shit you are dealing but my boy believe me this shall pass. Be it either happiness or sorrow this phase will move on ! A butterfly will have to struggle breaking its shell to fly high.
Deal through the shit ! You have to face it, struggle and break your wall .
Hey you know how much you are being loved and pampered now ?!
You have no clue how special you are to mama ,papa and your grandparents ! Our life revolves around you man. Now get that you are so special to people around you I dont want you to get low at any point in life.I want to bang your head with some points to clear your head !
- Be Happy ! Spread happiness
- Set your priorities carefully because they decide who you are 🤷🏼♀️
- Every time you get low or when you feel lost have this in mind there is family here who loves you for who you are.
- Every person you meet are going through some problem ,breaking some wall so try respecting others.
Now shook yourself and get started to deal your life.
Remember my boy I am here writing to you when Dad Minion is trying to sing a song of his own with some random words and put you to sleep.The person I want you to be is like my father or your father, both have never failed to give me my space and support me in my decisions. I am who i am only because of this family a loving dad caring mom and ever supporting husband man. I wish and hope you grow up to be someone like them because you three are the only men in my life i count upon.
I have one request to you, when you come across any girl or women in your life , when you are attracted to her or when all the hormones in you wants to have some fun remember
this she is someone else’s daughter ,
this she is a sister to an elder brother like you ,
this she is going to become a mother like me and
this she is probably dealing and fighting her own battle
so respect her and do not take her for granted because that is how the men in our family have been and I want you to be My boy
On International woman’s day I take this opportunity to salute every woman who runs for her family everyday with optimism. I am so happy to be a part of this Women’s day blog party.
This blog post is a part of #Womensdayblogparty.
I’d like to thank Kirthika for introducing me – She is a full time mommy exploring the world around with her 3 year old boy.Read her post for this blog party here here
Also do go to my friend Disha’s blog post on here
to read her perspective on the topic.